Table at Vanna and Roma’s
By Helen Grubner. Filed in Uncategorized |This weekend, 50 days after Easter Sunday, is Holy Spirit weekend, with Monday being a Public Holiday. A time when those who have passed are particularly remembered. Yesterday after breakfast, Anna and I sat at the table and I mostly listened as she told me many things about Costas’ last weeks and days, knowledge of which I did not have prior. A few tears, however, very therapeutic for us both. Katina had left the house early with a bowl of Koliva to take to the church up on the hill by the cemetery. In the Greek Orthodox Religion, Koliva is a dish that is heavy with ritual significance. It is more metaphor than food, really, symbolising the circle of death andrebirth. Wheat berries represent the promise of everlasting life, the raisins the sweetness of life and the spices are symbols of plenty. The dish is traditionally served only in a few specific circumstances, including the beginning of Lent and during memorial services. Each family prepares it’s own Koliva in memory of those they have lost and then they share it with the congregation.
The weather here like everywhere has been something of a mixed bag – a little rain, one minute overcast, the next sunshine. It is now almost 1500 hours Sunday afternoon and no sign as yet of the three younger ones I came home with at 0530 hours this morning – all three, Vassilis, Joanna and Yanni, still fast asleep upstairs. Vanna, Anna’s eldest grandchild is married to Roma, a Russian and yesterday Vanna’s son Manolis arrived home on leave from his army service – also his 24th birthday. Vanna loves to cook and it is not unusual to find oneself at their home on a Saturday night, sharing great food, wine and music with family and friends. Last night was one of those nights.
Can’t tell you how many of us were there last evening – a very long table stretching the full length of the room. On such occasions time has no meaning and almost anything can become the topic of conversation. Guests included Jillie (or Chillie) and Rick, an English couple I first met at Vanna and Roma’s three years’ ago. For sometime now, they have been renovating an old house near the village of Kampos about an hour’s drive from Kastelli and they try to spend at least two months out of every year here. Roma is to build their balcony this week and I hope to be able to visit them there before I move on next Sunday.
Jillie was anxious that I should appear in many of the photographs and so it was that she took control of the camera. Unfortunately, I did not explain that one needs to allow time for the camera to focus before shooting and therefore, some frames are not as clear as they otherwise might have been. However, I believe they still do capture the atmosphere.
A night of partying and celebration – a good time was had by one and all. Today we maybe paying the price a little but all I can say is – it was well worth it and I will do it all over again should the opportunity arise next Saturday or any other time in the future.
Sunday, May 23rd 2010 at 11:20 pm |
Good morning Helen, it is Monday 11am here.
I have enjoyed your update, especially reading about the traditions of your Greek family.
It seems to me that the Greek people enjoy life to the fullest. Good on them, that’s how it should be, perhaps they could teach us all something. 🙂
A bit of a bleak dismal day here in Wanganui and the Wang Chron recommends battening down the hatches as weather gets wilder. However I must say there isn’t a lot of movement out there at the moment. Saturday was a glorious day but Sunday dismal.
It was a real blob day for most of us yesterday. I didn’t achieve a lot, but hey that’s ok.
I love the pics, you look so at ‘home’ my friend and they most definitely captured the atmosphere. Everyone looked so happy.
It is a ‘big week’ for my hubby this week, he retires from 31 years at PGG Wrightson, his last day is on Wednesday. He is soooo looking forward to his retirement. Bless him, he has been a hard worker and will be sorely missed I am sure. they are sad to see him leave. He will have plenty to do with helping the kids out, and also he is a very keen gardener and has his own greenhouse to occupy him. He is a bit of a ‘jack of all trades’ and he masters them all. ………….Plus……we can get away when we feel like it, which will be great, altho having said that I do tend to hibernate a wee bit in the Winter, but will certainly be making the most of the in between seasons to get away.
You seem to be having better weather in Greece Helen. I have a feeling this is the start of our Winter looming. Its the turn!
Oh well thanks once again for the update and photos. I look forward to them immensely.
Take care
Love
Phyl x